Getting to Know You

Really knowing your fellow volunteers is a smart step toward building teamwork in your community or in your work environment.  Consider gathering with your housemates and co-workers and discussing the questions below.  You just might discover something surprising about someone you though you already knew pretty well, and, who knows, you might start to feel more like a team.

Supplies needed:  Paper, pens/pencils, open minds.                                                   
Time Needed:
 
About one hour.

Instructions
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  Gather together.  Write the following three questions on a piece of paper and display them somewhere so everyone can read them:


NEEDS
:  Expressing your personal, emotional, physical, and/or spiritual needs to one another can help volunteers put the needs of others before their own, it can nurture respect within a community and it can help you understand where each person is coming from- all key elements of teamwork.

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Question:  What are a few of your personal, emotional, spiritual, and/or physical needs?

GROWTH AREAS: Being honest and openly admitting areas where you fall short can build trust and respcet among community members and, ultimately, build teamwork.

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Question: What are come areas where you feel you need to grow?

SKILLS/STRENGTHS: Recognizing and putting to use your fellow volunteers' skills and strengths is one excellent way to build teamwork in your community.  Who knows what hidden skills your housemates or co-workers possess?

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Question:  What do you consider are a few of your best skills/strengths?

Each person take a few minutes for each question, answering the "Needs", "Growth Areas" and "Skills/Strengths" questions on separate slips of paper.  Collect all the answers when everyone has completed all three questions.  Make three piles, one for each of the three types of questions.  Then, each person take a turn picking one answer from the "Needs" pile and read the answer aloud.  Everyone try to guess who wrote that answer.  Keep track of how well your community is able to recognize who wrote each response.  Repeat the process for the "Growth Area" question, and,  then, for the "Skills/Strengths" question.



Take a Closer Look:

 

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How well was your community able to recognize the needs, growth areas and skills of one another?  Any need for better communication within your group?  If so, talk to each other about how your community can maintain more open forms of communication.

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Discuss reactions to the "needs" that your community shared.  How can you help one another meet these needs?

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Discuss reactions to the "growth areas" that your community shared.  How can your community respectfully challenge one another to work at your individual growth areas?

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Discuss reactions tot eh "skills/strengths" that your community shared.  What are some additional strengths within the community members which have not been mentioned?  Which team-building skills, if any, are short in supply?

 

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