You realize, of course, that you have been
living an "alternate lifestyle" as a volunteer. It may be that
you are interested in continuing this experiment in Christian living. How
can you go about this?
Catholic adults, young and old, single and married --
sometimes even with children -- are living in small Christian communities
in cities and towns across the country. This may be something that you are
interested in too. Community living is a challenge -- both to establish
and to maintain -- but the results might be just what you are looking for. Often you can find other interested parties among former volunteers in
your community (either through the Pallotti Centers Network, through your
volunteer program, or through advertisements in the local Catholic paper). Once you have found a group, you need to make some crucial decisions
together. It is very important that you set ground rules and make certain
decisions before you move in together. Although misunderstandings will
still arise, discussing some issues beforehand could make things much
easier in the long run. Issues worth discussing include:
• Division of household
tasks
• Communication
• Common meals?
• Guests, new members
• Common
prayer?
• Other house rules & ways to discuss them if problems arise.
• Affiliation with some religious
community?
• Community time
• Bills, finances
Needless to say you can think of other issues to be
raised -- issues which came up for you as a volunteer. You need to also
take into account some of the things which were already handled for you by
those in charge of your program.
Alternatives also are available. You may find such a
community already exists. In this case, it is still important to discuss
the same issues with members of the community -- interview your community
at least as carefully as you would a new job.
One such community that may already exist in your town
is a Catholic Worker House. Founded by Dorothy Day and Peter Maurin, the
Catholic Worker Movement has loosely-affiliated communities across the
country. They are usually listed under "Catholic Worker" in the
white pages. For more information see
The Catholic Worker
website, which has a directory of the Catholic Worker locations
throughout the U.S. and overseas.